Well, what do you mean by kinky? You have to be willing to say no. So if I could be some sort of a detonator to that bomb, then I was willing to do that. I wanted to go to Morocco and meet Paul Bowles.
Maybe she was just thinking, Can everybody just shut up so I can find somebody to have a decent relationship with? Then it was more than myself; it was you, or your house or your kitchen. You have a huge gay following, as I'm sure you know. My father didn't know.